About

About me

Hi, I’m Oli Lipski, The Queer Sensualist, a Sensual Intimacy Coach.

And I'm so excited to support you in creating the sex and love life you desire and deserve.

My Story...

I went through years of battling anxiety, being called “too sensitive,” all the while, going through periods of numbness and disconnect, being frustrated with myself, my body, and my relationships. What I didn’t realise was the amount of unresolved shame, fear, and attachment patterns that I was carrying — along with a real lack of knowledge around my pleasure anatomy, embodied consent, and healthy communication. There was so much holding me back from living my most authentic sexual self.

Thankfully, with incredible learnings and guidance from incredible teachers, I built up my skill set — including cognitive strategies and somatic embodiment techniques — that have helped me transform my relationships with myself and with others. The proof really is in the pudding.

And I am so excited to be able to share all of this wisdom with you!

Let's Chat!

Are you struggling with sex or love? Do you want to create the intimacy that you desire and deserve? I'd love to support you in any way I can! Book a free 10-mins intro call to see if or how Sensual Intimacy Coaching can support you!

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Accreditation

History BA at the University of Sussex, specialising in the History of Sexuality
The Complexity of Prostitution Course, at the University of Amsterdam
Sexual Dissidence MA specialising in Queer Theory and Intersectional Feminism at the University of Sussex
London Free School of Applied Critical and Feminist Theory at the University of London
Trans Competency Training at Trans Feminism International

Since graduating from Academia in 2017, I have over half a decade working in the Sex Tech industry as a Writer, Researcher, Content Creator, Social Media Manager, and Commissioning Editor for various sex-positive companies. Utilising my skills to educate and inform people using science-backed research, all the while queering the conversation around sex and intimacy.

I also offer Erotic and Intimacy Consulting services for creative projects within the film and music industry.

Since 2021, I have undertaken various trainings to inform my coaching practice:

Sex, Love, & Relationships Coaching Training with Andrea Balboni of Lush Coaching
Mental & Emotional Mastery & Relationship Mastery with Ty Hicks
Creating Conscious Love; Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery & Social Change; Somatic Attachment Therapy with The Embody Lab
Delivering Inclusive Relationship and Sex Education with Split Banana
Trauma-Informed Practice: A Course For Frontline Workers with AVA Training

Want to know more about how my Sensual Intimacy Coaching works? Book yourself in for a free 15 mins introductory call to see if or how I can help.

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What my clients are saying about me...

Listen to my client reviews

Lili

"It is always a pleasure to work with Oli, as she has such a warm and welcoming aura and creates a very safe container for anyone to feel comfortable.

Oli was able to help me see how these inner blockages are anchored within my body and how I could actually allow myself to be playful, let go, and just live a little."

Nele

"Each and every session with Oli left me feeling more relaxed and with concrete ideas for continuing embodiment and sensuality practice by myself.

These practices melted me and helped me get back to what is really important to me: wanting, longing, feeling myself, recognising what I need and asking for it."

Mary

"Working with Oli created a really comfortable space where I could be open and honest for the first time about the issue that I was struggling with.

The work done with Oli use aspects of tackling the emotions and giving practical teachings to implement in my life."

My Methods

A deep dive into what is blocking you, and how to empower yourself.

My method for creating the intimacy you desire will teach you new ways of connecting with yourself and others. My training combines my background in queer theory, sex research, and sensual embodiment trainings.

Unblock

Nourish

Connect

Sensual Intimacy Coaching 1:1

In this bi-weekly experiential deep dive we will uncover your blockages, and empower you to create the love life you desire. With homeplay and in between contact included.

Sensual Guide to Sexual Fulfilment

This course is your go-to handbook for all things sexual and sensual. With intimacy education, pleasure tools, and relationship teachings you never knew you needed!

Let's Chat

In these 15 minutes, I'll get clear on what you're going through and see IF and HOW Sensual Intimacy Coaching can support you in creating a fulfilling love life!